Tag: Coaching

Metaprograms: How big are your chunks?

In the last blog I visited the concept of ‘metaprograms’ – the general approaches to life that influence our view of the world and affect the success of our choices and outcomes, both positively and negatively. There are no ‘wrong’

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4 questions to make a big decision easier

I had an email the other day from a past client who I haven’t heard from for a while. It’s lovely to hear from people I have worked with, and especially nice when they occasionally just check in and tell

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What are you aware of?

As we go through life, stuff just happens. It can feel like we are being carried on a wave and there just isn’t time to properly focus on what is happening and what we are feeling. But moods and states

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So what WOULD Mary Berry do?

Most people have a hero. Someone whose work they admire. Someone who does something that stirs you up. When I ask my clients to tell me their heroes, they often feel that they need to come up with some big

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How to uncover more choices, when you are stuck

Many clients, when they first come to see me, feel they are stuck. There are so many different situations in which you can find yourself where there just doesn’t seem to be any choice. Here are just a few examples: being in

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5 stage-fright re-frames to shift your focus

Stage-fright on some level, is pretty much a given with many of the performers and speakers that I work with. On one level it is completely understandable. Few of us like the idea of standing up there in front of

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What could you learn at your 80th party?

Picture this:  You are walking down a local street one warm sunny day and you see this person coming towards you. They are getting on in life, probably around 80 years old. Surprisingly hale and healthy for that age, this

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What Dickens’ 3 ghosts tell us about resolutions

I know, I know – you’ve probably seen a dozen New Year blogs, New Year products and other activities based around the idea that now is the time to change yourself. Thing is, it is true. Now is not the

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First questions you should ask yourself if you want to change now

When you first enter my office in Haywards Heath I always ask you two important questions. Whether you are seeing me for a free appointment, or an intensive one-day breakthrough session, or even if you have begun a series of regular

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3 NLP techniques to reduce anxiety right now

There are varying degrees of anxiety, it’s true, and worrying about an event in the future can be a very stressful experience. You may have found yourself lying awake at night thinking about that meeting you have to go to,

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