Category: Self awareness

Guilt, regret and shame: can NLP help you deal with unhelpful emotions?

Dealing with guilt, regret or shame using NLP or Timeline Therapy can be very helpful in enabling you to move on in life. All of us, at one time or another, have had moments where we have made choices that

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What is your real hourly rate?

Do you know your real hourly rate? Many clients come to me because they are trapped in a career or job that they no longer want.  One of the most common reasons that they give for not leaving is that

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5 things that may help with anger issues

Anger issues are among the most common themes that come up when working with neurolinguistic programming (NLP) clients.  Often when I meet someone for the first time, clients will be concerned that they are having angry outbursts or feel pent-up

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Metaprograms: How big are your chunks?

In the last blog I visited the concept of ‘metaprograms’ – the general approaches to life that influence our view of the world and affect the success of our choices and outcomes, both positively and negatively. There are no ‘wrong’

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Metaprograms: Are you an away from or a towards person?

Is your map of the world (see my blog “I finally get getting there”) a generally positive one, or typically erring on the side of negativity? How we respond to our world, as I’ve said many times before, can totally

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Choice is not always a good thing

Here`s the scenario.  You are on your way to a meeting.  Perhaps it is work related, or a club committee, or simply catching up with a friend.  You’re about to head into the cafe, or the office and you suddenly

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4 questions to make a big decision easier

I had an email the other day from a past client who I haven’t heard from for a while. It’s lovely to hear from people I have worked with, and especially nice when they occasionally just check in and tell

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What are you aware of?

As we go through life, stuff just happens. It can feel like we are being carried on a wave and there just isn’t time to properly focus on what is happening and what we are feeling. But moods and states

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So what WOULD Mary Berry do?

Most people have a hero. Someone whose work they admire. Someone who does something that stirs you up. When I ask my clients to tell me their heroes, they often feel that they need to come up with some big

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How to uncover more choices, when you are stuck

Many clients, when they first come to see me, feel they are stuck. There are so many different situations in which you can find yourself where there just doesn’t seem to be any choice. Here are just a few examples: being in

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